You ever wish you had telepathy?
Just so you can know what the other is thinking and feeling...so that you can navigate your own thoughts/feelings to be the same. This way you could never doubt or be left in the unknown about whats really going on...
The downside of that...is there is no privacy. It wouldn't be fair,but the idea would be nice.
Thats the diffrence between men and women....men naturally can sift through the reality of a relationship and know where things stand. Whereas women...think...and think...and think. How many times has there been problems in a relationship b.c the woman is over thinking things to a point of over kill?
How do we find the balance then...to take the facts and see the reality of things like men?
I think...to a point....it's why we women are made. To be the emotional thinkers of a relationship...to bring love and romance and the men feel loved and complete to respond. I think....we are the emotional glue thats holds it together, and it's a tough thing to do. Men complain we are pushy and clingy...and yet if we stopped...what would be left but an empty shell of a 'relationship'.
I also think that it matters on the person you are with....if they dont reciprocate our affection.....then clearly they will just get more and more annoyed.
So wheres the fine line when it becomes too much? When the woman is pushing too hard...or when the man stops caring....
Well....we dont have telepathy...so it's about communication.....
The woman communicating her needs/wants/hurts, and the man communicating when its too much,that he actually cares.Both takes trust that the other person can handle the information and that it'll be worked through, not tossed to the side.
Until then....there will always be discord....
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